Intensify your fucking sessions with orgasm denial
For many people, sex is all about the sweet release of the sticky juice. It’s hard to think that anyone would want to avoid the orgasm. However, that is what orgasm denial is about. It consists of not allowing yourself or your partner to cum, so when it finally happens, the pleasure is so much more intense.
What is orgasm denial?
Orgasm denial is one type of sex game that falls under orgasm control. You can implement this sex game into your solo sessions or practice it with your boyfriend. How does it work exactly? The person who is being denied the orgasm is not allowed to cum for some time or at all during that session. In order to cum, the person has to complete a task or wait a certain amount of time.
Orgasm denial is often part of the submissive and dominant dynamic. It’s especially intense for those who practice 24/7 sub/dome relationships. The dominant partner is the one who decides when the submissive one will cum. However, orgasm denial can also be practiced from time to time, and it doesn’t necessarily need to include BDSM elements. You can also do it alone by setting the time that needs to pass or tasks you need to do before you can cum.
There are a few types of orgasm denial. The main ways to practice it are complete denial, tease and denial, and ruined orgasm.
Complete denial
Complete denial means that cumming and any sexual activity are forbidden. The chastity period can last for hours, days, weeks, or any other period, and the person is not allowed to touch himself or have sex during that time.
Teasing and denial
Teasing and denial can be similar to edging. Both are about getting to the verge of orgasm and then stopping. The main difference is that edging means delaying the orgasm, which implies there is a payoff at the end of that session. On the other hand, teasing and denial doesn’t include an orgasm during that session, and sometimes days or weeks pass until the person is allowed to cum.
Ruined orgasm
A ruined orgasm is the term used to describe a sex game where something stops the cumming or makes it less pleasurable. To ruin an orgasm, you can provide pain or discomfort, which can go from light pinching to cock-slapping. Or you can block the ejaculation by covering or squeezing the glans.
Benefits of orgasm denial
Back to the question of why would anyone want to give away the peak of pleasure. You should know that orgasm denial has many benefits for both partners.
Deciding when your partner will cum and controlling his pleasure is very exciting. And the same goes for the sub – giving away the control is highly arousing. That element of power is the best.
Another benefit is the intensified pleasure that comes when you are finally permitted to cum. This sex game feels thrilling on its own, even without the orgasm, so you can only imagine how good it will feel once the orgasm happens and you are allowed to shoot out all the jizz you have been holding.
Controlling your orgasms or having your partner do it can also help you last longer. By practicing not to cum when you need to, but only when you have permission, you learn to have control. That can help you even when you don’t practice orgasm denial because it will let you last longer in your regular fucking sessions.
How to do it
There are many ways to practice orgasm denial. You can deny the orgasm a certain number of times before allowing it. Or, set a timer or choose a specific date before which no cumming is permitted. If you are new to this sex game, you should start small. That means having realistic goals – scheduling cumming in a few days, not a few weeks; denying orgasm five or ten times, not fifty times right away.
For dome/sub dynamics, punishments and rewards can be used for orgasm denial. Orgasms can be a reward for completed tasks. You can also practice the reward and punishment system on your own. Set some goals or tasks for yourself and only allow yourself to masturbate or cum if you have completed them.
Roleplaying and games can also be fun when combined with orgasm denial. The dominant person can pretend to be a boss or a teacher ordering the submissive one what to do and what not to do.
There are also props you can use: chastity belts, cock cages, toys, feathers for teasing… Even everyday objects can be of use, such as calendars for scheduling or timers. You can even decide whether or not to allow orgasm by tossing a coin or a dice.
Use denial for more intense orgasm
Orgasm denial is a type of orgasm control games. It can be as kinky or vanilla as you want, and it combines excellently with dome and sub dynamic. Not being allowed to cum might sound challenging, but it is very rewarding. When you can finally cum after being denied orgasms, the pleasure is so much more intense.
